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Comedian couple 'shocked' after confessing to domestic violence
In 'Party Resolution', which aired on the 3rd, the official schedule for the 3rd day began. In this couple's counseling session, couples watched a preliminary individual counseling video and had time to look into and understand their spouses' inner thoughts. First, counseling began for the couple Jonghyun Yoon and Jiyeon Lee. In the video summarizing the prior personal consultation, Jiyeon Lee expressed her feelings of being left out, saying, “All I want from my husband is empathy and say, ‘Oh, that’s right.’”
While receiving counseling, Ji-yeon Lee was strongly feeling the void left by her mother, who passed away when she was 20 years old. I wanted my husband to have warm love like a mother. However, Jonghyun Yoon always hid his emotions in the shadow of his father, who found authority through violence, and never learned how to express them properly. Ji-yeon Lee, who heard the story of the past, comforted her husband by saying, “It must have been so scary,” and Jong-hyun Yoon could not hide his tears. In response, Park Eun-hye said hopefully, “The husband worked hard for his wife, and I think he will recognize it now,” and Giant Pink was also happy, saying, “It came out well, I really did a good job.”
After the couple's counseling, Jonghyun Yoon was given a 'mission'. It was to receive an apology from a friend who sexually harassed his wife in front of him seven years ago. Putting aside his complicated feelings, he called the friend he had lost contact with for seven years, but the connection did not come immediately. However, in the end, Jonghyun Yoon succeeded in receiving an apology. He happily ran to his wife and reported the results. “If I had told her right away, she wouldn’t have been hurt this much.” right? “I hope I can comfort you by saying this even now,” he said, expressing sincere consolation. Ji-yeon Lee later said, “Aside from receiving an apology, my husband took a step forward and came closer to me.”
Kim Dan-ha, who was watching this, found her husband Bae Jeong-geun. Bae Jeong-geun was lying on the bed, focusing only on his cell phone. Kim Dan-ha expressed his disappointment by saying, “Why didn’t you reply when I sent you a KakaoTalk message?”, but Bae Jeong-geun said, “You were like this yesterday too. “Even though I treat him the same way, he does this again,” he replied indifferently. Also, when Bae Jeong-geun was rejected while playing with Kim Dan-ha's hair, he coldly said "Go" and even showed a cold attitude, saying, "I'm not going to the couple's room today."
Then, counseling for Bae Jeong-geun and Kim Dan-ha began. In the video, Kim Dan-ha felt disappointed by her husband's behavior of making him repeat the same household chores two or three times in his life, and complained that he "looks like a bad person" every time he does that. He also confessed that he was wondering, “What do you think about marriage?” However, even though Bae Jeong-geun saw his wife like that and knew her inner thoughts, he seemed to put reality first. And in Bae Jeong-geun's personal counseling video, he said, "I can't breathe because there are rules in the house," and revealed that he had lived under the weight of the rules made by his father since he was a child.
When asked by an expert, “What did you want your wife to say while watching the video?” Bae Jeong-geun answered, “I had no expectations.” He said, “I feel like the father and wife who enforced the rules are the same,” and added, “I wish there was no punishment when the rules were broken. “My wife throws things,” he said shockingly. In addition, when he confessed, “If my wife breaks her promise, she makes me come home right away even when I’m out,” Kim Dan-ha got excited and defended himself, but was stopped by an expert. In the end, Bae Jeong-geun confessed all of his resentment. The rift between the couple deepened, and eventually the counseling was stopped for a while. Even with the efforts of experts, it seemed difficult to restore the relationship between these two.
Soon, the counseling of Choi Jong-an and Park Hae-na began. The relationship between the two changed in every way after Park Hae-na's illness. In the video, Park Hae-na said, “I feel sad that my husband seems to be becoming complacent about his illness as time passes.” Hearing his wife's story, Choi Jong-an expressed his sadness and revealed his past, when his father, who was hearing impaired when he was young, became increasingly violent and communication was cut off. He said, “I am afraid of becoming distant from my wife,” and wished, “I wish I could communicate more with my wife.” However, even after watching the video, Park Hae-na expressed that “(her husband’s appearance) is contradictory” and “I want to restore the relationship, but I avoid it.” “Isn’t it the same thing?” I didn’t understand.
‘How’s Your Marriage?’ airs every Tuesday at 10 PM on SBS Plus.
Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr
