A couple who has been in serious conflict for 20 years

In MBC's entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which airs today (20th), an impregnable couple who has never even had a proper fight due to tight communication appears. In the past, thanks to his wife's active courtship, the two started living together within a week of their first meeting and got married very quickly. However, the hot days were short-lived, and on this day, the wife confessed that she felt out of breath just looking at her husband's face.

When the couple's daily life was revealed, the MCs were shocked and said, "I understand why they can't fight," and "They look like monks." Because of my husband who avoids communication and keeps his mouth shut to the extent that it reminds me of silent practice. In fact, the distance between the two seemed even greater as the husband lived in separate rooms, the wife in the living room, and the wife in the master bedroom.

The impregnable couple's communication problems were revealed due to their financial situation. A couple lives by borrowing money from acquaintances every month to pay off old debts. On this day, too, the wife, who received a phone call demanding debt, was eager to scold her husband, asking, “When will my salary come in?” My husband, who answered the phone while working frantically at work, only gave a vague answer, saying, “I can't guarantee when my paycheck will come.” As a result, the wife pours out direct resentment toward her husband, deepening both of their wounds.

In the subsequent interview, the husband sighs, “I feel so frustrated when I get a call when there is no solution.” Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was watching this, pointed out, “The wife has a tendency to push her husband too hard even though she knows he will not be able to solve the money problem,” and added, “It seems there is a A different message she wants to convey to the husband than solving the money problem.”

That evening, the wife expresses to her husband the dissatisfaction she has been building up with her in-laws. The two got married without a wedding due to extreme opposition from their in-laws. Even after 20 years of marriage, his in-laws still do not recognize his wife. The wife begins by saying, “Even though I was in the emergency room with pulmonary tuberculosis, I was taken off the ventilator and attended my grandmother-in-law’s funeral.” “But my in-laws didn't even offer condolences or support when my mother passed away,” she said, expressing her anger. In response, the husband repeatedly apologized and comforted his wife, saying, “It's natural to feel disappointed.” However, the anger that has already built up in his wife's heart and the hurt that she has been ignored do not seem to subside easily.

The next day, when his wife did not come home late at night, the husband called her and begged, saying, “Let’s talk.” In response, the wife refuses to talk, saying, “All I can say is that I'm sorry and nothing changes, so it's harder. “I don’t want to talk.” The husband, who was suffering and saying, “What on earth should I do more?” ended up behaving strangely and hitting his head repeatedly.

Two people who have been unable to communicate for 20 years have pushed their married life to the brink. Dr. Oh Eun-young's healing report for impervious couples can be seen in episode 30 of 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which airs at 10:30 pm on this day.

Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr