So Yi-hyun, In Gyo-jin, crying and upset about their daughter

So-eun, the daughter of actors So Yi-hyeon and In Gyo-jin, confessed that she was scared of her parents' angry behavior.

In ENA's 'Oh Eun-young Game', which aired on the 14th, a game that helps children's language development was revealed.

While talking with Gong Gong, In Gyo-jin and So Eun's daughter So-eun said, "I want you to tell Mom and Dad something. I was a little scared when Mom and Dad got angry at me. Please tell me not to get angry." Hearing this, So Yi-hyeon and In Gyo-jin's eyes became moist.

In Gyo-jin said, "I have never been angry, but I think I was talking about that time. One time, the kids held my leg and cried and cried because they couldn't let me go to work. I had to go out now, so I told them, 'Bring a whip.'" “Afterwards, So-eun started talking about that.” In Gyo-jin asked, “Then how should I discipline my child?” and expressed, “When my mother talks, I listen well, but when my father talks, I really don’t listen well.”

Oh Eun-young said, "The important thing here is to distinguish between discipline, life guidance, and emotional empathy. Discipline is not about bargaining, conditions, or compromise. You must be able to clearly state what is harmful and dangerous to yourself and others clearly and firmly. “We need to talk about it,” he said. He added, “But most adults say scary things. And they scare you by saying things like your head is pounding and bleeding.” He added, “There’s no need to do that; you can just say, ‘Then no, don’t do it.’”

Oh Eun-young said, “Life guidance is when a child puts his or her legs up on the desk. All you have to do is repeatedly tell him to sit upright instead of doing that.”

Regarding emotional empathy, he explained, "This is In Gyo-jin's situation. If a child cries and says, 'I'm so sad when Dad goes,' all you have to do is acknowledge and acknowledge, 'Oh, I miss Dad a lot. Dad knows how I feel.'" did.

Choi Ji-ye, Ten Asia Reporter wisdomart@tenasia.co.kr