In MBC's entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which airs today (6th), a couple appears who say they are suffering from unresolved problems despite having received marital counseling more than 50 times so far. A husband who wants to no longer dwell on the past and only think about the future, and a wife who cannot move forward in a good relationship because she keeps thinking about the mistakes her husband made in the past. Will this couple, whose difficult reasons are so different, be able to take the first step toward solving their problem by meeting Dr. Oh Eun-young?
A family of four living with his wife, the head of an accessories export company, her photographer husband, and their two sons. A husband who returns home from work begins to notice his wife as soon as he meets her. The wife, who had been painting the dresser after work, began to pressure her husband, asking if anything had changed. When she saw the meat he had bought for the weekend camping trip, she continued to nag him, asking why he had to buy it today when he was going to the market that day. The husband, who is intimidated by his wife's criticism, is cooking to prepare a late meal alone, or even while eating, he glances at his wife's gaze, and when he sees his wife's expression becoming even more tense, he hurriedly finishes the meal.
That night, the couple brings up an ‘old story’. A wife who decided to get married just because of how caring her husband was when they were dating. However, after marriage, her husband's tyrannical tendencies were revealed, and she had to live in anxiety throughout her married life due to his threatening behavior during past marital fights. In the end, the wife, who was left with the trauma of this incident, notified of separation, and during the two years of separation, she raised two sons alone without her husband. The husband also confesses his wounds, saying that it was a painful time for him to be separated from his beloved family during this period.
Afterwards, the husband noticed his wife's feelings and the wife said she could never forget the hurt. Although they reunited for the sake of their children, their marriage was still in jeopardy as they continued to live with unresolved problems. Dr. Oh Eun-young, who heard the story, analyzes that the wife's criticism and nagging is not because she dislikes her husband or disapproves of his actions, but that she seems to have her own unique reasons.
The next day, at a camping site with her family, her husband announces his intention to quit his job and work as a freelancer. The reason is that the work I do at my current company is physically difficult, and I want to make more money. As soon as the wife hears what her husband says, she firmly opposes it. In fact, my husband has already experienced three business failures. Moreover, she surprised everyone by revealing that the cost of her husband's business and clean-up alone was a whopping 200 million won.
My husband works as a freelancer and even lays out a specific plan to work part-time as a delivery worker if his income is insufficient. However, the wife's distrust has reached its peak because the husband has been showing irresponsibility to the point where he only watches movies in the office and falls behind on rent. In fact, out of the 13 years of marriage, her husband only gave her living expenses for 3 years.
Dr. Oh Eun-young's healing report for 'jungle couples' who want to escape from the jungle-like marriage life where only the strong survive can be seen in the 25th episode of 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which airs at 10:30 pm on this day.
Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr