On the MBC entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell' that aired on the 1st, Myanmar star wife Chan Chan, who has 1.4 million followers on social media, and her husband Kim Min-soo, who helps her with the manager's work, visited.
The two met while doing volunteer work in Myanmar, shared a special love that transcended borders, and ended up getting married after a long relationship of 10 years. However, now in their 6th year of marriage, the couple revealed their doubts and regrets about marriage through an interview. The wife expressed her discomfort with their time together, saying, “We clash all the time except when we sleep,” and the husband also expressed his dissatisfaction with his dictatorial wife, saying, “She tries to do as she pleases.”
My wife, Chan Chan, runs an online Korean language school for numerous Myanmar students. The husband delivers his wife's favorite drink for her while she is giving video lectures from home, and even leaves the house that serves as his wife's workplace with their three-year-old son. The lecture seemed to run smoothly thanks to the husband, who played the role of his wife's manager, but after a while, the husband came home with a crying child.
In the end, the wife expressed her anger at her husband by stopping the lecture in front of dozens of students. “You should be considerate of me” and “You should not disturb my working hours,” my wife yelled. The husband responded, “It’s so unfair. “Are lectures more important than children?” he said, expressing his resentment. In the conversation that followed, the fight between the couple, who did not understand each other's situation, continued. The husband expressed his discomfort, saying, “I don’t want to hear my wife say she’s a public figure.” The wife, tired of communicating with her husband, simply said, “Don’t talk,” and left. A wife who gives up and says, “I know that conversation won’t work,” or “I’ve already given up,” and a husband who builds a wall, saying, “If I talk about my complaints, the same situation will happen again.” The gap between the couple showed no signs of narrowing.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was watching the two, gave a harsh warning, saying, “If we continue like this, our relationship will get really bad.” Dr. Eunyoung Oh began, “I think the biggest reason why my wife says, ‘I am a public figure’ is to mean, ‘I am a person who represents my country, Myanmar.’” He continued, “My wife goes beyond ‘how are you treating me when you criticize me’ and seems to take it as ‘I feel like you don’t respect not only me but my country.’” He continued, “This is a question of ‘who is right and who is wrong.’ “It’s not an issue,” he said, warning that if the differences in the couple’s concept of public figures are not reduced, they will always fight over the same issues.
The next morning, the husband had a meal with his wife's Myanmar student. He talked about the difficult situation in his home country due to the current coup. And in a difficult situation in many ways, she expressed her frustration with her husband, who was not there to comfort or help. However, the wife ended up holding back tears as her husband could not sympathize with her situation, saying, “It was not a problem that could be solved by crying.”
The couple returned home and had an honest conversation. My wife confessed that she had stayed up all night due to anxiety for two years due to the Myanmar coup. My wife has been working hard for the people of Myanmar through social activities through social media, expressing her beliefs to various broadcasters in order to provide some help to the situation in her country. As a result, his wife, Chan Chan, was designated as a blacklister by the military. As a result, my wife was worried about her parents who were left behind in Myanmar, and suffered from neuralgia and anxiety. Nevertheless, the wife is frustrated with her husband who cannot sympathize with her, saying, “Your brother is someone else’s business.” When the husband continued to say, “This is not a problem that can be solved by crying,” and “You have to hold on and think about solving it, you just keep whining,” the wife soon stopped talking and eventually left the house.
The couple is said to have become increasingly estranged after the Myanmar coup. To top it all off, the MCs were even more saddened by the fact that his wife once went to extreme lengths during a fight over this issue. Regarding the extreme behavior, the wife shocked everyone by saying, “I hurt myself because I thought my husband would recognize me if I behaved like this.” Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was worse off, criticized her husband, saying, “You really can’t empathize.”
Dr. Eun-young Oh said to her husband, “Thoughts, heart, and actions intersect with each other. “They are all different areas, but my husband doesn’t seem to be able to distinguish them well,” she explained. And “The heart is the emotion that arises inside me. “I think we need to practice a lot of empathy through acceptance, acceptance, and recognition,” he advised.
Additionally, Dr. Oh Eun-young left a sincere piece of advice, saying, “I wish my husband would quit his job as a manager.” “Because the husband’s original job is not as a manager, there are probably many things the wife doesn’t like about the manager’s work.” “It is necessary to establish a structure where the husband can focus on his original job and the wife can separate work and home to get the job done.” “I think so,” he said, sparing no advice.
Next week's trailer, which was released at the end of the broadcast, revealed the sad story of a wife who was diagnosed with intellectual disability after six years of marriage and a husband who suffered from trauma due to school violence he experienced as a child. The husband and wife thought they were the last person to fill the empty space in each other's hearts, but they ran into a realistic problem. The story of the puzzle couple who came to Dr. Eun-young Oh with each of their heartaches can be seen on 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which will be broadcast at 10:30 pm on the 8th.
Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr