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Wife suffering from unexplained pain
In MBC's 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which aired on the 30th, a couple appeared who wrote 'divorce documents' every day.
A 10-year-old couple who met on a blind date and got married in just two months. The wife confessed that she married her husband because she fell in love with his affectionate personality, but now it is painful just to be in the same space as him. Due to the unbearable pain, the wife had already asked her husband for a divorce several times. However, the husband, who had grown up in a divorced family at a young age, was adamant that he could not accept his wife's request for divorce, even for the sake of the children.
The wife cited pain of unknown origin that began after marriage as the reason for the divorce. There is no place that doesn't hurt, including the stomach, eyes, breathing, shingles, and face. My wife took a series of medications, including antidepressants, sleeping pills, and digestive medicines, without even skipping meals in the morning. But my husband acted calmly. My wife said, "I take 5 to 6 pills during the day and about 6 in the evening. My jaw doesn't move for no reason, and sometimes my ears hurt and my head hurts like a peck. I went to an oriental medicine. clinic and went to the hospital and got an MRI, but it was still clear." He said, frustrated.
Every time I got sick, I visited several hospitals and tried to find the cause, but the only answer I got was that there were no abnormal findings and that treatment was difficult. As this situation continued, the husband became frustrated every time his wife said she was sick. The wife was convinced that the cause of her illness was the stress caused by her husband.
The husband did not understand, saying, "Even when I am sick, I tend to just tolerate it unless it hurts to death. I rarely go to the hospital. But my wife goes to the hospital even for trivial things. This time, I "I am half worried and half frustrated about where it will hurt." The wife also revealed that her trust in her husband was completely broken after she sensed something was going on with the woman at the beer bar while he had been out of contact for about three hours.
The wife said that she felt more psychologically stable at work rather than at home, and did not hesitate to reveal her uncomfortable feelings toward her husband. The couple's voice gets louder and they say harsh words to each other. The children, who could not see this, stopped their mother and father from fighting.
The wife seemed to have made up her mind and with difficulty began to speak out, saying that there was a time when she was disappointed in her husband as a person. The husband, who works at a liquor distribution company, said that a few years ago, he had a drinking party with an employee of Gamaekjib, who was a business partner at the time. On this day, for the first time since getting married, she could not contact her husband for a long time, and the wife questioned him about the reason, but the husband's excuses changed each time, leading the wife to suspect an affair. Even after a year, the broken trust between the couple has not returned.
In an interview with the production crew, the wife said about the reason she closed her heart to her husband, "My husband hurts me a lot with his harsh words. I was very sweet before marriage, but as soon as I registered my marriage, he changed, the baby was born right away, and the grandfather who raised me passed away.” “What would you do if you went?” and at that time, I thought, ‘I married the wrong person,’” he recalled. Next, the wife confessed her wounds that have not yet healed, saying, “I am always hurt because everything is said in my daily life. One time, he said, ‘Are you abandoning your children like your mother?’ It was the most insulting thing I have ever heard."
Under the influence of alcohol, the husband asked his wife if she thought it would be easier if they divorced. To this, my wife calmly replied, “I think I’ll be happy without you.”
Kim Ji-won, Ten Asia reporter bella@tenasia.co.kr
