Park Na-rae was a victim of school violence

In Channel A's entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which airs today (14th), emotional rapper Wonstein's concerns are revealed.

Wonstein, who entered the counseling center boasting his unique juicy beauty, announces that he has recently released his single album 'Single' and brightens the atmosphere of the counseling center with his doggy charm that stimulates the protective instinct. However, Wonstein soon surprises everyone by revealing a twisted worry: “When I get angry, I have to hit the wall with my fist to relieve stress.” He hits the wall with the intention of breaking his hand, which shocks him by saying that he needs to get seriously injured to come to his senses. In addition, Wonstein revealed that he was so angry that he hit the sofa with his fist and had to wear a cast, and confessed that he was suffering from aftereffects because he did not go to the hospital.

After hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young begins full-scale counseling by asking Wonstein at what moment he finds it most difficult to control his anger. Accordingly, Wonstein explains that people hold back on trivial things, but then they explode over insignificant things, and their anger erupts when they feel that it is okay to be angry. He then expresses his honest feelings, saying that he does not want to change his anger because he sees that he gets better after venting his anger through violent actions. Accordingly, Dr. Eun-young Oh continues to analyze Wonstein's bones, saying that Wonstein's violent behavior was 'self-harm'.

Dr. Oh Eun-young, who then continued to ask several important questions, caught Wonstein feeling more sorry, disappointed in himself, and ashamed than necessary. We continue in-depth counseling by asking him sharp questions about whether he has ever felt disgust beyond shame. After thinking for a while, Wonstein reveals an anecdote about how he ignored school violence during his school days. Wonstein sheds tears recalling the memory of just watching his friend being bullied.

Accordingly, Dr. Oh Eun-young explains that the people who can't help but watch are 'innocent bystanders' and that the less experience one has of respecting oneself, the more guilt and helplessness one may fall into when they become innocent bystanders, and that his experience of not being respected as a child Find out what was there.

Wonstein said, “I thought I had to give up the world of school,” and recalled his school days when he would sleep unconditionally to avoid being bullied. He confesses, “There was one person who bullied me exclusively, and there were 20 to 30 people who bullied me on the radar.” He then revealed, “I have had money stolen from me,” and expressed great regret by saying that he wanted to lend it to a close friend out of fear that further harassment would occur if he did not give the money.

After hearing this, MC Park Na-rae hesitates, saying, “I’ve never talked about this before,” and then cautiously begins, “There was a friend who particularly bullied me and hated me.” He then revealed that he was also a victim of school violence, revealing his honest feelings during his school days when he felt helpless in a situation he could not handle, saying, “They publicly cursed at me for no reason, and even threw rocks and trash.”

In response, Dr. Eun-young Oh adds, “School violence, which is repeated every day in closed classrooms, not only has a negative impact on the formation of a person’s self-image, but also takes away the strength to live.” In addition, he asserts that “school violence is a clear criminal act” and raises his voice criticizing school violence by saying, “Bullying that is repeated every day destroys not only the body but also the victim’s spirit, aka gaslighting (psychological domination).” In addition, it mentions the signs that can be experienced when experiencing school violence, and suggests ways to identify school violence for parents of adolescents, informing them of the dangers of school violence.

Wonstein's stance is, "I don't want to blame the perpetrators. I think there must have been a reason." After hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young turns to Wonstein with an unusual look and points out that he is “seeing himself from the perspective of the perpetrator, so he harms himself because he thinks it is okay to be in pain,” and comforts Wonstein, who was hurt by school violence.

The episode ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center – Rapper Wonstein’ will be broadcast at 9:30 pm on the 14th.

Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr