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Wife sexually assaulted, husband makes outrageous remarks
In the second season of 'Party Resolution', which aired on the 25th, three couples had the time to honestly reveal the most hurtful memories and wishes for each spouse, looking for clues to the festering marital conflict.
Red's husband cited his biggest wound as being told by his father-in-law, "You are no longer part of our family," when he visited his in-laws' house at the end of last year when they were separated for divorce preparations. because he wanted to see his child. In response to this, the red wife showed a firm attitude, saying, "That's right. My husband is not family to me." In addition, she reacted strongly to her husband's wounds, saying, "If I'm having a hard time, I can just leave the house, but I'm the one who cried and took care of my child."
Red Wife revealed that after she closed down her business to give birth and raise her children, she heard harsh words from her husband, saying, "If you had done really well, you wouldn't have had to close your business. You are a failure, you are worse than a cockroach." In response to this, Red's husband claimed that it was both parties' negligence that occurred during a time when they were at odds a lot and their emotions were bad.
In a conversation between the two in the couple's space, the red wife said, "Family is the person who is always by my side no matter what mistake I make. But my brother never came in," and was dissatisfied with her husband who avoided the situation whenever there was a conflict. exploded. In response, the red husband explained the reason, saying, "She screams, she looks bad when we have a child, and there is no improvement in our relationship at all, so I have no choice but to..."
A time to find out the extent to which one understands one's spouse's wounds through 'pouring water from a water bottle', one of the ways to express one's feelings in the second period of 'Danggyeolan'. The red husband understood half of his wife's wounds. However, the red wife left the table without pouring the water, showing a clear difference in position.
The yellow husband cited an incident in which his wife, who was raising children, left the house while he was working at work, leaving the children behind, as his wounds. In response to her husband saying, “How can you just leave your children behind and move out?”, Yellow Wife said that she was filled with fear as she had to take care of the children alone after the live-in helper got off work . He also recalled the situation at the time, saying that he was disillusioned with himself for being irritated by his child and had difficulty controlling his emotions.
MC Park Eun-hye revealed in Yellow Wife's story that she was hurt by people around her saying, "Why is it difficult to raise your child when you gave birth to her?" At the same time, she showed deep empathy as she looked back on the memory of scolding herself, saying, "'I'm a mother, so I have to be an all-rounder.'"
Yellow Wife shocked everyone by confessing that she had been sexually assaulted at a massage shop she went to with her husband. He recalled the time, saying, "The male masseuse touched my breasts while changing positions during the massage. It turned out that he was a repeat offender." However, she also added that her husband suddenly got angry and verbally abused her, saying, "When you were hanging out at the club, you wore clothes that revealed your cleavage. Are you saying it's a joke just because I touched that?" At these words, not only the MC but also other husbands were shocked. The yellow husband explained, “Of course, at first I asked her to go to the police station with me, but as my wife continued to get angry and raise her voice, I made a mistake.”
In the space where the couple sat facing each other's wounds, the yellow husband acknowledged his shortcomings, saying, "I wasn't able to take more sides at that time, and I think I was very wrong if I hurt them." Yellow Wife also apologized, saying, "I couldn't help it at that time. I'm sorry without any excuses." The yellow couple filled their water bottles and showed that they understood each other 100%, opening the way for reconciliation.
Blue's husband, who was so tired of his married life that he made several extreme attempts due to depression, confessed that he was very disappointed in his wife who ignored his condition. However, Blue's wife showed a conflicting stance, saying, "It was outrageous that someone with a family would say such a thing."
Blue's wife expressed her frustration with her husband's egocentric personality. While I was planning to move to a larger house because the house I lived in with my parents was small, a conflict arose between my father and my husband over ownership of the name of the house and the remaining money after purchasing the house. In response, Blue's husband expressed his position, saying, "It is true that I was angry and raised my voice, but it was like my father-in-law suddenly changed his words."
The blue couple's tense confrontation continued in the couple's space. The wife wanted reconciliation with her father, and the husband demanded a polite apology from his father-in-law. Blue's husband poured about a third of the water into the bottle as an acknowledgment of his self-centered personality, but he did not acknowledge the friction with his father-in-law. Blue's wife, unable to understand her husband's hurt, left without pouring water.
The red couple, who had the most tense parallels and could not easily narrow down their differences, began their third conversation through 'What they want from their spouse.' We had an honest conversation about the husband's request, "I want my daughter to be the number one priority," and the wife's request, "Don't restrict my every move no matter where or what I do, but give me freedom when I say you need my time." At this event, the wife promised to be completely by her husband's side, and the husband promised her free time. The two achieved a dramatic reconciliation and showed that they understood each other 100% as they filled their water bottles.
Kim Ji-won, Ten Asia reporter bella@tenasia.co.kr
