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"Did I get married for no reason?" Mina, 17 years younger, blocked Ryu Phillip's work... Oh Eun-young "emotional orphan status"
On the Channel A entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Side Counseling Center', which airs today (14th), Mina and Ryu Phillip, a married couple 17 years older, will appear for the first time in the entertainment industry.
The married couple Mina and Phillip Ryu recently became a hot topic by uploading a dance video on social media. Their couple dance video has been viewed more than 20 million times. In the appearance of talented people who have been certified as 'short-form strongmen', 'Donna Siblings' MC Park Na-rae and Jeong Hyeong-don challenged to learn the dance challenge.
The friendly atmosphere was short-lived, and Ryu Philip took the luck out of his worries, saying, "Mina is tired of worrying about every move." Phillip Ryu expresses that he is listening to Mina's constant nagging bombardment of not only daily life such as 'drinking hot water', 'protein intake' and 'eating well', but also interfering with work. "I don't know why you're so morbidly obsessed with it," he says, revealing his discomfort with his wife. In response, Mina showed a tense battle of nerves from the beginning, saying, "I cursed at someone I met for the first time because I nagged her," and "To be honest, there was a time when I thought I married someone younger."
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who confirmed the concerns, explains that the greater the age difference between the couple, the 'couple power gap' can occur. Advises that when a marital power gap arises, there is a possibility that one person will over-control the other as the power imbalance comes.
Hearing this, Phillip Ryu recalls borrowing a large amount of money from Mina in the past due to family circumstances, and confesses that he felt the balance of power tilted at that time. As a result, Phillip Ryu tried to make a living by doing something other than entertainment, but complains of helplessness by confessing that he has not been able to earn a single penny for 7 years because Mina has stopped him.
Upon hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young feels sorry for her and asks Mina why she is blocking her husband from working. Then, Mina replied, "My husband is good at singing, but he is also good at acting." In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young gives Mina rough advice, saying, "I'm trying to put my husband in the position of a student."
Then, Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzes that the best love that Mina can give to others seems to be 'responsibility'. Mina, who actively agreed with this, replied, "I want my family to be comfortable," and "I know that my husband has had a hard life, so I tried to make him happy." Upon hearing this, Phillip Ryu carefully confesses his childhood wounds, saying that he still feels empty because he could not live as a complete family due to his parents' divorce at the age of four.
Phillip Ryu was raised by his mother after his parents divorced, but after receiving a phone call from his father saying, “I will be a father from now on,” he reveals that he went to America for his mother, who is tired of raising Philip and Ryu alone. However, as soon as he arrived in the United States, he confessed that he had suffered serious labor exploitation for about 5 years without receiving a single penny at his father's store. He had to run a restaurant with about 100 seats with his stepmom and older sister without a single employee. At that time, Phillip Ryu only believed in his father's words that he would send him to college and worked, but instead of going to university, he heard the words, "I'll hand over the restaurant, so get a job."
MC Narae Park asks if he ever told his father that he didn't want to work. In response, Phillip Ryu confesses that he bought gold and silver from his father's gold and silver store with his stepmother's money and took over the restaurant with a mortgage on his stepmother's house. After hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young confirms that Phillip Ryu is a person who values harmony, cooperation, and solidarity, and continues his analysis, saying that he was sorry and uncomfortable when he borrowed money from Mina, and that he went all the way to America for his mother, not himself.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who heard the story of Phillip Ryu's painful childhood, analyzes that he seems to be an emotional orphan, and that love, an essential element between parents and children, is missing. In response, Phillip Ryu confessed his deep feelings with difficulty, saying, "I don't know what family love looks like," arousing regret.
On this day, Dr. Oh Eun-young taught Mina and Phillip Ryu the meaning of true love and brought out the highest level of satisfaction with counseling. 'Oh Eun-young's golden counseling center - Mina and Ryu Phillip couple' will be broadcast on the 14th at 9:30 pm.
Reporter Tae Yuna, Ten Asia youyou@tenasia.co.kr
