Byeon Eun-ji, a high school mother raising three siblings, sobbed as she confessed to having miscarried her fourth child.
In the 3rd episode of MBN's 'Adults Don't Know High School Dad 3' that aired on the 1st, Byun Eun-ji and Kim Hyung-soo, who became pregnant at the age of 19 and are raising three siblings aged 4 to 6, appeared.
On this day's broadcast, Sunye from the girl group Wonder Girls appeared as a guest. Next, Byun Eun-ji's story was introduced in the form of a reenactment drama. Byun Eun-ji, who became famous for her beauty in Yeongwol, Gangwon-do, during her first year of high school, met a man through an open chat room she posted on social media, and naturally fell in love with his kindness and kindness and started dating.
Three months later, they found out that they were pregnant, and even in shock, Byeon Eun-ji's parents allowed the birth, believing in the couple's will to "have a child." However, with her boyfriend's mother still opposed, Byun Eun-ji dropped out of school and gave birth, fearing that rumors would spread in the neighborhood. In the end, Byeon Eun-ji, tired of raising children in the real world, decided to go off a cliff due to severe postpartum depression.
Byun Eun-ji's daily life was revealed. After overcoming postpartum depression, Byun Eun-ji and Kim Hyeong-su became parents to three children: 6-year-old Ha-jun, 5-year-old Ha-seong, and 4-year-old Ha-min. Park Mi-seon, who saw the fairy-like greetings of the children, was surprised and asked, “Are you full once a year?” In response, Byeon Eun-ji said, “If we were going to raise children anyway, I wanted to raise them all at once.”
Byeon Eun-ji, who had planned to marry each other in the same year, made French toast with her skillful cooking skills, and then calmly completed preparations for her three brothers' school with her husband. Hyungsoo Kim, who was in charge of taking the children to school, returned home and started working from home at the shopping mall. Kim Hyung-soo showed his caring side by saying, “It seemed really difficult for my wife to take care of the child alone, so I chose to work from home to help her.”
After the children's homecoming, Byun Eun-ji and Kim Hyung-soo headed to the badminton court and enjoyed badminton, a common hobby of the couple. At this event, Byun Eun-ji calmly expressed her hurt at the time to her colleagues, saying, "Because the neighborhood was small, there were some negative comments about me getting pregnant at a young age, and to avoid people's attention, I ran away to Jecheon, North Chungcheong Province and gave birth." I confessed it.
Afterwards, they arrived at Byun Eun-ji's in-laws and had a friendly conversation. Byun Eun-ji's mother-in-law, who had opposed Byun Eun-ji's childbirth at the time, had already become a strong supporter, but during the conversation, she surprised her son and his wife by saying, "Now I want to see my granddaughter." That night, the couple had a serious conversation about their plans for a fourth child.
Unlike Kim Hyung-soo, who wanted a daughter, Byun Eun-ji confessed, "Unlike before, I was afraid of having a child." In an interview with the production crew, she sobbed and revealed, "I recently suffered a miscarriage after becoming pregnant with my fourth child." Byun Eun-ji couldn't stop crying for a while even when the story of her child came up, and Sun-ye offered warm consolation, saying, "I hope you can get rid of the guilt you feel for not being able to protect your child."
A few days later, Byeon Eun-ji and Kim Hyung-su's family visited Byun Eun-ji's parents' house. As the fourth of six siblings, Byun Eun-ji grew up in her parents' home, and like a large family, family members constantly poured out and made happy smiles. After having a dinner filled with the taste of her mother's home cooking, Byeon Eun-ji gave practical advice to her younger brother, who was about to become independent, saying, "Don't live with your girlfriend."
When asked the reason, she replied, "Isn't this something I've already experienced? It was difficult (being pregnant and giving birth as a teenager) and it was not the right thing to do," showing that she has become much more mature due to the realistic experience. In addition, Byun Eun-ji had a private conversation with her mother. To Byun Eun-ji, who was heartbroken due to a miscarriage, her mother confessed her hurt for the first time, saying, “I also suffered two miscarriages.” Her mother then comforted her by saying, “Throw away the worry that you might miscarry again, and be strong.”
Byun Eun-ji said, "I had another conversation with my husband about plans for a fourth child, and since we are both still young, we decided to think about it slowly." In Gyo-jin said, “As I am 24 years old, it is not too late to start something new from now on.” Sunye also cheered, saying, “As a wife and mother, I hope you can only be as happy as you are now.”
Kang Min-kyung, Ten Asia reporter kkk39@tenasia.co.kr