Kim Wan-seon revealed that he never received payment from his aunt, who was his manager for 13 years, and that his uncle and his wife squandered about 130 billion won.
Singer Kim Wan-seon appeared on Channel A's 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which aired on the 10th.
Kim Wan-seon revealed the secret to maintaining his weight, which is only 1kg different from when he debuted. He revealed in the past that he had not eaten rice for 10 years to lose weight.
Jeong Hyeong-don asked, “I don’t eat rice because I don’t like getting older.” Kim Wan-seon replied, "My manager at the time thought that if I ate anything during my debut, I would gain weight, so I didn't have time to gain weight due to my busy schedule, so there was something about it that "I wasn't allowed to eat. I didn't eat rice during my promotions for about 10 years."
Kim Wan-seon surprised everyone by saying, "I didn't have enough carbohydrates from the sweet broadcast vending machine coffee, so I drank instant coffee instead of rice and was shiny during the 3-minute performance. I recharged my short-term energy with ice cream and repeated." He said that he weighed 45kg when he debuted and now he weighs 46kg. Kim Wan-seon revealed his thorough self-management, saying, "I don't eat late-night snacks. I fast after 6-7 pm"
Kim Wan-seon's younger sister, Kim Young-sun, then appeared at the counseling center and expressed her frustration with Kim Wan-seon's interpersonal relationships, saying, "My sister doesn't have many friends, so she's like a remote island floating alone. ." Dr. Eunyoung Oh began a full-fledged analysis of Kim Wan-seon's inner self, bringing out the characteristics of people who found it difficult to make friends. Kim Wan-seon confessed, "I'm not shy, so I get along well with strangers, but it doesn't lead to a second meeting. When we meet again, my memory is 'reset' as if we're seeing each other. other for the first time." He also said, "It's difficult to contact my friends or even my mother first because I'm worried that my contact will be a nuisance."
Dr. Eun-young Oh said to Wan-seon Kim, “You are thinking negatively about yourself,” and asked where those thoughts originated. After thinking for a while, Kim Wan-seon recalled the time when he first started as a singer, and mentioned his aunt, Han Baek-hee, with whom he lived as a producer and manager for 13 years. Regarding her life with her aunt, who interfered in every situation, including the clothes she wore and the food she ate, she said, "I never thought of it as my life, and I was like a robot who did what my aunt told me. to do," and confessed the negative feelings she had toward herself in the past.
Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzed that Kim Wan-seon was originally a proactive and independent person, but felt helpless when her opinions were not accepted due to her oppressive aunt. In addition, as a result, Kim Wan-seon was diagnosed as being in a state of 'emotional exhaustion', which refers to a state in which all mental energy has been exhausted.
Dr. Eun-young Oh's analysis was given more weight by the words of her younger brother, Young-seon Kim. When Kim Wan-seon goes shopping, she doesn't have the energy to look around, so she buys all her clothes from one store, and even when buying a car, she only reads the catalog. Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was surprised by the anecdote about the ultimate lethargy, revealed Kim Wan-seon's MMPI (Multi-faceted Personality Test) results and explained that Kim Wan-seon is currently in a state of severe mental energy depletion. He then explained that if you lack mental energy, you may not be able to remember various things that happen in your life.
In response, Kim Wan-seon made a shocking confession, saying, "I trained to forget my memories." It is even said that the reason he started 'memory erasure training' was because of a conflict with his aunt, who was his manager. Because of her aunt who ignored her opinions, she tried to express her feelings by writing a diary of 8 pages of A4 paper, but in the end, she tried to forget her memories and volunteered to become a zombie. Accordingly,Dr. Eun-young Oh continued Kim Wan-seon's in-depth analysis by pointing out that people are using 'thought suppression', a defense mechanism that suppresses thoughts in order to forget difficult events.
Kim Wan-seon worked tirelessly for 13 years, but never once received payment, and he said that he ran away from his aunt wearing only one set of clothes, which made everyone feel sad.
Kim Wan-seon said that his aunt was in charge of management, but he did not receive a single penny of the profits from 1986 to 1998. At the time, it was known that Kim Wan-seon earned more than 10 billion won in profit. every year. The profits of approximately 130 billion won over 13 years were used to repay the uncle's debt. Kim Wan-seon said, "I worked from early morning until dawn, but I had no money. I couldn't get the settlement. At first, I thought it would be okay for 2-3 years because of the investment cost, but It continued. I never once asked my aunt, ‘Why don’t you pay the settlement to me? “I have never said ‘nya’ before.” When her aunt passed away in 2006, Kim Wan-seon was unable to relieve the pain in her heart.
Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out that the aunt used 'psychological domination', or gaslighting, to strengthen her control through excessive control. Additionally, she recognized that her aunt's actions were a kind of 'dictatorship' and helped Kim Wan-sun to carefully bring out and face the memories he had tried to keep hidden.
Kim Ji-won, Ten Asia reporter bella@tenasia.co.kr