Lalal mentioned his ideal type.
In KBS2's 'Can a Breakup Be Recalled?' broadcast on the 27th, the story of a recalled man was revealed under the topic 'A woman who contacts her ex-boyfriend or a man who drinks with his female friend?' YouTuber Lalal served as the daily recall planner.
On this day's broadcast, Recall Man recalled his breakup with X, who was 4 years older than him, whom he had been dating for a little over a year. The two people, who met as a store customer and employee, had a good conversation as their codes matched, and thanks to the recall man's proactive approach, they became lovers.
But when they became lovers, fighting became a daily routine for them. The recall man was often hurt by X's ex-boyfriend, and X was often upset by the recall man's female friend. Also, the two people had very different ways of resolving problems, so they often quarreled. Communication issues were also one of the reasons the two often fought.
However, the recall man said that since breaking up with In response, the recall man explained the reason, saying, "I recalled the breakup because I had the greatest hope that things would work out again at this opportunity, or I wanted to definitely end the relationship."
The two met at the recall table. X also revealed the desire to organize the ambiguous relationship with the recall Nam and honestly told the story that the fight would not have greater. X pointed out the recall man's way of speaking as if he was always arguing and his behavior of calling in the early morning while drunk and repeating the same words to express his dissatisfaction.
The recall man said, "I was anxious. I think my sister instilled that anxiety in me," and mentioned X's contact with her ex-boyfriend. X said there was a misunderstanding, saying, "My ex-boyfriend didn't know I had a boyfriend."
X recalled the behavior of a recall man who had to point out every single problem that arose, and said, "If I have a complaint, I tend not to say anything and just ignore it. If I do, it's obvious that we'll fight, so I don't talk about it. If I just put up with it, it won't work out." “It’s okay to fight, and you just have to put up with it, but since you’re trying to resolve everything, I thought it was a waste to waste your emotions fighting.”
The recall man replied, “Isn’t that too selfish?” X raised his voice and said, “Since meeting you, I have endured countless times and passed it alone countless times.” He then mentioned the behavior of the recall man who would get angry even if he lost contact for just 1-2 hours when meeting with a friend. In fact, the recall man himself expressed his dissatisfaction, adding that he had been lenient on the communication issue.
Through the recall table, the recall man heard X's inner thoughts for the first time without fighting, and he resolved to change himself. But the breakup recall failed. X said his final goodbye, saying, "I thought our relationship wouldn't change. I thought it was a waste of time to waste my emotions. If you ask to remain friends, I'm welcome, but if you say you can't, I'll respect that too." The recall man calmly accepted the result and completely ended the ambiguous relationship.
Jang Young-ran told the recall man, "You should completely stop drinking and talking on the phone," and Yang Se-hyung also said, "If you don't like that person, you don't have to. If you like that person, just make an effort. That's how you are ready to love." Lalal also advised, “You have to adapt and be considerate.”
Lalal, who appeared as a daily recall planner, boasted of his candid remarks. Regarding his dating style, Lalal said, "In the past, I was the type of person who gave everything away to the point where it seemed foolish. But I realized that was wrong and changed. I stopped dating people deeply. Even if we met for a long time, I couldn't open my heart well and I stopped trusting them." Also, regarding her ideal type, she answered, "A sexy and kind man."
Kang Min-kyung, Ten Asia reporter kkk39@tenasia.co.kr