The reunited couple Na Han-il and Yoo Hye-young revealed their continued conflicts and concerns.
Na Han-il and Yoo Hye-young, who got married for the third time, appeared on Channel A's entertainment show 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which aired on the 21st.
The two confessed that they were still worried that they would break up again due to their different lifestyles. The two married in 1989, but divorced in 1998, nine years after their marriage. They then got back together four years after their divorce, but broke up again in 2015. Afterwards, they reunited again in 2022 when they appeared on the entertainment show 'We Got Divorced 2'. Divorced from each other twice and married three times.
Na Han-il said, "I thought we couldn't get back together, but my daughter didn't think that way. I think she thought the relationship had to be restored somehow."
Yoo Hye-young said, "I was sorry that my daughter did not have a father, and I wanted to fill the empty space. When I was alone with my daughter, there was a great emptiness that could not be filled. Even as adults, that place was always the same. When we met again, it seemed like there was a possibility and I felt comfortable. “We knew it well without any further explanation, so we decided to reunite.” Na Han-il also said, "I think about how I can make my wife and daughter happy on the weekend. I think about what kind of food I should cook this week. I never knew such joy in the past."
However, they are currently living as a weekend couple. Yoo Hye-young said, "We can't live together yet. The space right now is not enough for three people to live in." Na Han-il also said, "I lived apart for 7 years after my second divorce, and a lot has changed. My wife and daughter are used to living alone. I think it would be stressful if we combined our lives." He also expressed his worries, saying, "I feel like I'm walking on thin ice, so I'm living my married life cautiously. I've done a lot of wrong things to my wife, so I'm afraid that we'll go back to the old days again." Hyeyoung Yoo worried, “I think there will be a lot of inconveniences if we live together.”
Oh Eun-young said, "The couple's marital satisfaction test is the worst ever among the contestants." He then pointed out the problem, saying, "Conflicts appear in all 14 items. Even if their inclinations and tastes are completely opposite, it is rare for couples to be this mismatched. The most serious ones are economic conflict and emotional communication."
Eunyoung Oh pointed out economic issues. Yoo Hye-young said, "I found out soon after I got married that if I have money, I spend it all. If I have money in my pocket, I spend it all. Even if I don't have money, I take out a loan and lend money. It's like a runaway locomotive." Na Han-il then said, "It's fascinating to hear new stories. There are many businesses that this person doesn't know about. It takes less than 5 minutes to invest in a business. I met director Hyeong-mok Hyung, whom I respected, and he said he wanted to leave a good work, which led to film production. It was the best movie at the time." “We cast all the star actors. At the time, the production cost was usually 700 to 900 million won, but 2.7 billion was spent. It was a box office failure, so it was canceled after three days,” he confessed. When Yoo Hye-young was frustrated and said, “It has to be a box office hit,” Na Han-il said, “But we still won a lot of awards.”
Oh Eun-young diagnosed Na Han-il as suspected of having adult ADHD. Oh Eun-young explained, "ADHD is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and begins at a young age. When you become an adult, you go around meeting people all the time. Since you can't sit in one place for a long time, you have meetings all day, but you can't even hold meetings for long." However, "It seems like you are already putting in a lot of effort. Looking at you two, it looks like your third marriage is going to be a flowery road. I discovered the possibility. You said that the feelings you two feel for each other are compassion, and the deepest love of a couple is compassion. "He cheered for the two.
Kim Ji-won, Ten Asia reporter bella@tenasia.co.kr