Wife Chan Chan and husband Kim Min-su, who were struck in the eye while doing volunteer work in Myanmar. The two, who shared a special love that transcended borders, successfully married after a long relationship of 10 years. Is it because I forgot that marriage and dating are different? A couple who spends most of the day together expresses regret about marriage, saying, “If I go back to the past, I would think about marriage again,” and “I want to live alone.” The husband, who also acts as the celebrity wife's manager, even decided to appear on TV to expose his wife's dictatorship. A married couple who lives under one roof and spends all their schedules together, but they only hurt each other the whole time they are together. Dr. Eunyoung Oh's customized solution for this couple is revealed.
My wife, Chan Chan, runs an online Korean language school for numerous Myanmar students. The husband sometimes brings coffee for his wife, who is giving a video lecture from home, and sometimes leaves the house with their three-year-old son. However, the husband, who is new to parenting, has difficulty comforting the crying child, so he returns home. Although my wife is facing dozens of students, she has no choice but to stop the lecture.
The wife's reprimand toward her husband does not stop here. In this day's filming, the couple goes to counsel the wife's Myanmar student and his Korean boyfriend about their concerns. The wife repeatedly warned her husband not to play pranks, but the husband could not hide his playfulness. My wife returned home and said, “I am a public figure and a teacher. She yells at her husband, saying, “I am a person who must be respected by people,” and “Don’t do anything that belittles me in front of others.”
Accordingly, the husband claims to be a public figure and wants to be respected by students, and expresses his resentment toward his wife, who prioritizes lectures over children. Even though we tried to understand each other's positions through conversation, the same situation kept happening over and over again, so my wife just said, "Don't talk," and left.
The next morning, the husband had a meal with another of his wife's Myanmar students. He talks about the difficult situation in his home country due to the current coup. In a difficult situation in many ways, she expresses her frustration with her husband who was not there to comfort or help her. However, the wife ended up holding back tears as her husband was unable to sympathize with her situation, saying, “It was not a problem that could be solved by crying.”
The couple returned home and had time to have an honest conversation. My wife reveals that she has stayed up all night in anxiety for two years due to the Myanmar coup. The social activities of various broadcasters expressing their beliefs to help the situation in their country have gone unnoticed by the Myanmar military. When he heard the news that he had been blacklisted in Myanmar and could not return to his country, he suffered from neuralgia and anxiety and was even taking medication.
The wife feels frustrated and betrayed by her husband who cannot empathize with her. The conflict deepens as the husband says, “Shedding tears does not realistically help Myanmar.” The husband then said, “You have to endure it. “You keep whining,” he said, making his wife angry. The wife, unable to hide her anger, interrupts the conversation and eventually leaves the house. The couple is said to have become increasingly estranged after the Myanmar coup. The wife is saddened by saying that during an argument over a similar issue, her husband, instead of empathizing with her, only made sarcastic remarks and went to extreme lengths.
The healing report given by Dr. Oh Eun-young to the wartime couple, who started out as a love that crossed the border line, but have now crossed the line that each other must protect, can be seen in the 36th episode of 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', which airs at 10:30 pm on this day. .
Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr