Benny, tears of the oldest mother at 45 years old

Singer Benny revealed that she was pregnant after four miscarriages, but felt like she was nothing.

Ahn Yong-jun and Benny appeared as clients on Channel A's 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which aired on the 17th.

On this day's broadcast, Lee Yoon-ji congratulated Ahn Yong-jun and Benny, who are scheduled to give birth in May. Yoonji Lee said, “I heard you posted an ultrasound photo on social media, and I was so amazed and thrilled when I saw the first ultrasound photo.” Ahn Yong-jun laughed and said, “What still gives me goosebumps is the moment I heard the heartbeat, it was a different world from before. This is my life! I became happy.”

Park Na-rae mentioned Lee Young-ae and Choi Ji-woo, representative cases of elderly childbirth in the entertainment industry. Benny said, “I am due to give birth when I am 45 years old.” Jung Hyung-don explained, “I am currently the oldest pregnant woman in the entertainment industry.” Yongjun Ahn and Benny have been married for 8 years and became pregnant after 8 years. But what concerns did you have that brought you to ‘Oh Eun-young’s Gold Counseling Center’?

Yongjun Ahn smiled and said, “We have a child and are about to give birth. It’s been 8 years since we got married.” On the other hand, Benny was surprised when he confessed, "I am at the age when menopause begins. Even the hospital said it was like a miracle. I had a child, and it seems like happiness and unhappiness came together." He added, "As I gained weight, I looked so ugly when I looked in the mirror, and hairs grew on my stomach. My immune system was low, so I got hives all over my body, which gave me scars."

Benny said, "My friend said I should only look at pretty things and not look at ugly things. Then I shouldn't look in the mirror." Ahn Yong-jun shed tears, saying, "My wife says she's sorry every day. She says it's hard for me to suddenly gain weight and see me like this. It's actually prettier and I'm grateful. But she's sorry for that." Benny said, "I feel like things are going back and forth within me right now. I can't complain to anyone because I chose it."

Benny said, "We started in vitro fertilization in 2021. The first time, two lines came out. They were not clear. I went for a blood test and they said it was wrong. It was wrong the three times I saw these two lines. “Even if there were two lines, we were worried because it wasn’t ‘wow’,” he said. He added, "I started blaming myself. I told him to just stay in bed, but he said it was because of my age and because I was working. I said I didn't want to do it this time. I told him I wouldn't be able to do it after two years."

Benny also explained, "I wonder if the kids who came out this time could be healthy. I visited the hospital again and they said there was one method. They said the method I could try was hypoallergenic therapy. That has now come to fruition." Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "One of the best aspects of femininity is pregnancy. However, the paradox is that when pregnancy, which is the best part of femininity, causes a woman's beauty to diminish, so to speak. A mother who breastfeeds is so beautiful. It is different from being pretty as a woman."

Benny said, "I have been running towards my dream and goal of music. That was all. I am scared and afraid that everything I have done for over 30 years will collapse and disappear in an instant. I lived my life achieving and achieving and having fun in life, but I don't know what I should do. I don't know what to do." “He was always bright and active, but they kept saying that he was a nobody and just like animals.”

Kang Min-kyung, Ten Asia reporter kkk39@tenasia.co.kr