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Han Hye-jin "I can't get married because I'm pushed by my age"
On the 21st, a video was posted on model Han Hye-jin's YouTube channel with the title '(Shocking True Story) My male friend of 20 years became my XX partner.'
In the released video, Han Hye-jin provided love counseling. The first story was about breaking up after rejecting skinship. In response, Han Hye-jin said, "The fact that I was embarrassed and scared when the skinship was about to progress further means that I was instinctively sending a sign to myself. I sensed danger. I want to applaud you for doing such a great job. I'd rather be glad."
He continued, "If you start dating as an adult, there is no need to rush too much. Also, there is no need to match the tempo of the other man if you don't want to. If you are uncomfortable, tell the other person. If you want to do it naturally, say that you will wait." “He’s a good man,” he said.
The second story is about becoming a partner with a friend of 20 years. Han Hye-jin said, "You may suspect that he is not solving the final puzzle of being a lover," and "After being friends for a long time, we suddenly entered into a physical relationship, and I feel like the steps toward becoming a lover as I thought were wrong. The importance of physical relationships." “I’m leaning towards. It seems like the man doesn’t give me emotional confidence,” he said.
He also cheered for the protagonist of the story, saying, “But what I can say for sure is that this is something you can’t do without liking it.”
The last story was about a woman who wanted to get married, but decided to postpone it until a few years later because her boyfriend had no intention of getting married yet. Han Hye-jin said, "This is an empty check. It's too unstable. It seems to be a difference in values toward life. This boyfriend's value is that he will live happily with the person he loves without getting married, and the troubled woman says that marriage gives her a sense of stability."
In addition, he said, “If you make a decision because you are pushed by marriage and age, there is a high probability that you will not be able to make a rational decision. The most important thing is that I want to get married, but it is not true that I have to get married because you happen to be there. A person cannot have everything. "The reality is that in order to choose one, you have to give up one. Have a serious conversation with your boyfriend, and just as important, have a conversation with yourself as well," she advised.
Reporter Junho Yoon, Ten Asia delo410@tenasia.co.kr
