Broadcaster Seo Jang-hoon got angry at a client who warned him that he would divorce her if he made her angry one more time.
KBS Joy's 'Ask Anything', which aired on the 20th, was featured as a global special, and a husband who said he was worried because he could not control his anger every time he fought with his Thai wife appeared as a client.
On this day's broadcast, the client, a 42-year-old postal worker, appeared with his wife. The client's wife was 12 years younger than him and came from Thailand. The two are an international couple who got married in 2021 for three years. The client confessed, “I get very angry whenever I have trouble with my spouse.” He added, “I’m not the type to suddenly get angry.”
Seo Jang-hoon said, “You look very angry on your face.” Lee Soo-geun said, “You still look angry.” Seo Jang-hoon pointed to the client's wife and said, "This place is full of water." The client said, "Actually, I saw something bad a little while ago. There was an accident in front of the fortune teller while I was disinfecting my hands."
Seo Jang-hoon asked, “Apart from that, the important thing is, why are you angry at your wife?” The client responded, "When there's a problem, don't you talk to persuade? As I talk, I can't communicate. I felt that if I get angry later, the trouble will end quickly."
Seo Jang-hoon asked, “It hasn't been long since you got married, so why are you having so many problems?” The client said, "We argued even before marriage. The first problem was the visa issue. My wife came in on a tourist visa, but the coronavirus broke out, so they extended it by one month, but the coronavirus eased, so the visa. extension was not possible. While this was happening, let's get married with a visa. “So I registered my marriage first,” he explained.
He continued, "I was talking to me about getting a marriage visa, and then suddenly I got a call from a number I didn't know. When I answered the phone, he said he was calling through his wife's introduction. He said he would teach me how to get a visa. When I asked, my wife looked into it through social media or something. "He said there was an easy way to get a visa, so he sent me 1 million won without consulting me. We said there was no reason for disqualification when getting a visa, so we could just prepare the documents the country wants and send them to him," he added.
The client said, "I already gave the money. From there, it started to become a problem. The last fight was over work issues. (My wife) used to work at a factory in Andong. She developed allergies from the factory chemicals, so she thought it would be a good idea to quit there, so she decided to quit." I was looking into things I wanted to do or could do, and he said he wanted to do what a friend in Seoul was doing. So I agreed, and he said he would come home once a week. From then on, I was angry. I went and worked for two months. “But they suddenly said he had changed jobs.”
In addition, the client said, "If you think you're going to change jobs, you should discuss it with me before moving. He said it's dangerous to go unconditionally just because the conditions are good. There haven't been any problems so far, but I wish we'd discussed it a little more. Keep talking about it through social media or friends." “I’m sad,” he confessed. Seo Jang-hoon mentioned his wife's Korean language skills. How did you communicate? The client and his wife said they communicated through a translator application.
Seo Jang-hoon said, "I think the problem started from there. If you look at the level of Korean you speak now, you probably don't understand it perfectly. Even though we've been together for four years, we probably haven't 't had proper communication several times. We probably haven't been able to have deep conversations. “That's the problem,” he pointed out. The client said, “We always fight because of him.” Seo Jang-hoon, who heard this, got angry and said, "Stop talking about me like that. “What’s your kid?” Lee Soo-geun also added his strength, saying, “Tell my wife about this.”
Seo Jang-hoon said, "I told my wife that if she makes me angry three times, I'll divorce her? Who are you? You've already made me angry twice, so if she makes me angry one more time, you 'll divorce me? Why am I chasing you around because I like you?" She added, "What do you think about the person who hears that? If your boss at work tells you that if you make me angry three times, he'll fire you, wouldn't you feel bad? The boss is still angry, and the only person he can trust is you, so why would your husband do that?" .
Kang Min-kyung, Ten Asia reporter kkk39@tenasia.co.kr